After reading and researching asking stupid questions and double guessing everything I finally have my grow lights.
First I can’t say enough about HLG and especially Cody
The dimmer wasn’t working. Cody wanted to send me a new one right away but being handy with Cody on the phone figured it out in like 10 seconds
I also want to thank @Hellraiser and @dbrn32 for answering me and not getting to upset with a middle aged noob