@Ripwater12 Hang in there. I had one mediocre grow and one were I had to give up on four plants after babysitting them for three months.
Just dissect your grow-could it be the pH? Take a soil slurry pH test. Your water pH and ppm test it. Nutrients? Does the manufacturer recommend flushing? Like @Storm I use Earthdust and it is easy. Feed the soil, feed the plants. Let the microbes do the work.
Like everyone else said it’s all about what works for you. I got extremely lucky on my last and first grow with what I used. I didnt expect to keep any of them alive and ended up with over 12 ounces of amazing buds. I am simply repeating what I did because I kept detailed journal and so far it’s working the exact same for me. Most people I talk to have to try different things and have growing pains it’s typically normal.
Hang in there though because it is such a great rewarding hobby.
@Ripwater12 I totally understand your frustration. It can be like drinking from a firehose and overwhelming here. See if you can find a successful grower that has a style you like based on your time, energy, and $$. Ask questions.
We all have different methods but you find yours and don’t give up. It is rewarding to grow your own (even if you do not smoke like me).
@Ripwater12 dont give up! Once you get it it’s all worth it, may I suggest trying organic? Soil, nutrients, the lot, I grow organic soil and nutrients and I never PH anything