The language was only one of the reasons I mentioned the disclaimer.
I have a topic that leads to many disagreements due to the nature of the topic itself. If people can’t handle disagreements without taking it personal, it’s not the topic for them.
Sometimes while venting, others may be guilty of what you are ranting about. If they can’t see that you’re just releasing frustration, it could lead to conflicts which is the opposite of what this site is for.
We no longer have the private message option. I understand the reasoning, but it would be useful in a situation like you have. We need to be able to get the garbage out.
It was just a thought…