@SmoknGranny I am 2 years older than you. So not too much older. But I can understand what your hubby is going through. I am bipolar. Some days worse than others. But I dont have it to the degree that others can have it. And I have the UTI problems. That goes pretty much with being male anymore and old. Some apnea, though not too bad. And COPD, fairly bad. And bad heart issues. And then pain…all over, everywhere. Some days its pretty severe. So bad that I sometimes want to pick up my 9mm and end it then and there. The wife and I dont avoid each other, not much anyway, but on her days off she pretty much sticks to her room and the tv and thats about it. My 2 younger sons are part owners in the house and they live here. They came down here a few years ago to help take care of me after I got out of the hosp. Spent months in there. Multiple surgeries. Open heart, etc. and other issues.
Me, my life was varied. Computer analyst/programmer, farmer, photographer. Electrical Engineer. Did it all. Then my military life caught up with me and my health nosedived.
So, my health is better now, I am stable, for the most part. Cept the pain. So I got tired of dealing with the docs regarding it and decided to go the mj route. Soon as I get this grow done, I will be good. Got 3 types, each with different phenotypes so that each one is different in how it will affect me. Did that on purpose. Going to do the eatables and the vaping. Looking forward to being able to do them. Dont have any mj now to vap or eat, but am in hopes. Seeing some sugar leaves developing on my girls… yummmm