Oh Sweetie 
Iām as lost and befuddled as you are! I truly wish I could help you more.
I have yet to decarb but Iām in the process of setting up a āmini kitchenā in my garage with a toaster oven and small crockpots. Iām having to adapt how some things are done for my specific situation. Iām in an unfriendly state and stealth from my hubby. So Iāve bookmarked some decarb methods here for when Iām ready.
As to vaping I believe thereās a couple of options: oil and dry herb. I vape cig oil in my process of quitting cigarettes. Iām interested in learning how to make vape cbd oil down the road. I have a dry herb vape for ground buds. You can find those online from low to high $$.
Iām planning on going back and reading about the hair straightener thingy so no help there.
The more I read the more I get confused also. I also look at other sites and sometimes see conflicting information from here.
Iām honored that youāre asking me for advice and hopefully I will be a better mentor as I gain more practical experiences
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